listening part 3

I really liked the listening to support others and it was a good way to for understanding and for the good support. It is an important way in which the listener can use their listening skills.  By using the listening skills you can become a more effective, helpful, and thoughtful listener.  I thought this was a really important section and it popped out to me because I think communication and listening is important in all relationship whether is has to do with friendship, serious relationships or anything of that sort.  Being mindful and respectful of what the other person is saying is important in terms of what they are feeling, thinking, needing and wanting.  It is important that you always look at other people's perspective, not just yours, you have to be open and supportive. I think paraphrasing is an important method because it helps you understand the communicator better and it shows that you are listening. It also helped us understand the meaning more and actually let us take in what was said. This is important in a relationship because understanding how a person is feeling with using good listening skills shows a lot of support. Once you understand the person you are able to communicate your support while listening and understanding fully with all the helpful tips. Listening to support is a good method for understanding and caring for others and all should listen that way. :)