Sunday, November 11, 2012

interesting


I really enjoyed reading about the different styles of love. I enjoyed reading this section because i love like love. if that makes sense. i love "love type" movies. I just love people and hearing about their love stories, they are so cute.There are primary ones and secondary love styles. The primary styles of love are Eros, Storge and Ludus. Eros love is powerful and passionate.  Eros involves very intense feelings and sometimes causes the person to self-disclose at an early stage in the relationship. Storge, the second primary love style, which is like a "comfortable, even-keeled kind of love based on friendship and compatibility" as the books states on page 277. Love develops slowly, taking things really slowly and uses buds from similar interests, life goals and etc. Find common ground and similar things that interest both in the relationship.  Usually it isn't intense  love but imore like a growing relationship. Last style of love that is primary is ludus. Ludus is like playing a love game with commitment but like a casual relationship.


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