I have experienced only 1 relationship and we weren't quite in love yet or it didn't last that long to be called love. We were both committed though. We talked for a couple month then he made it official by asking me out and we dated for like 7 or 8 months then things didn't work out. I guess we weren't meant to be since it didn't work out but i moved on kind of.. haha. Most of my friendships with my friends have commitment involved when it comes to being there for them and hanging out with them. We all want to be good friends that are always there when we need them. There are some friends that we will always be friends with and stick together and there are other friends that we do not care about as much because we don't see a stronger friendship bond with them later. Commitment relationships like love relationships because love relationships have commitment in them to succeed. I believe that commitment relationships are impacted and not so sad and heart breaking as love relationships because those hurt the most.
I totally agree with you on the commitment with friendship. When you are in any kind of relationship, there will be some kind of commitment involve whether you know that it is there or not, especially in friendship relationships. You are committed to a person who you truly trust and cherish your relationship with them, so you commit your trust and time to them by hanging out more with them or interacting with them more and more as days go by. Commitment also consists of time involvement. The longer and deeper you know a person, the more you are committed to it.
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